You are a man who liked a Russian girl? You are ready to get married but one thing confuses you – she has a child. What are disadvantages and advantages of relationship with a woman having already a kid?
First, it is quite uneasy to date such a girl: domestic problems (care of a kid, communication with them) create additional difficulties of choosing of time for dates. Besides, a child is the very ‘third one’ who will always be near you at the moment when relationship is just starting up and you would so much like to stay alone with the young, clever and beautiful mother…
Second, such a girl has a father of a child who despite relationship with a mother herself being ceased can sometimes visit his son or daughter with the purpose of communication or prevent his child going abroad. And now it is worth discussing positive sides of the fact that your choice has a child. A little son or daughter of your girlfriend from Russian can become best helpers in bridge building between you and your beloved one. Any woman will be crazy about a man whom her child could love. The best variant for you and your child is to become best friends.

In the person of a small human being you will find a devoted partner for games and they will find an older friend. It will be very useful if you are planning to take your wife from Russia to you country. Adaptation will pass much easier if near a Russian woman there is her child. There is a good proverb, ‘If you want a woman to like you – compliment her child’. And can you imagine what feelings will a girl have for you if you will really sincerely take care of her kid and love them?
The second thing to be noticed is that a Russian or Ukrainian girl who became a mother is quite psychologically different from those who haven’t yet experienced the responsibility of motherhood. Discos and parties are not so interesting for her anymore. In her subconscious mind there are perspectives of creation a hearth and homey home, care for her beloved husband and child. Such a girl is better prepared for family life.
Making a conclusion one can say that the thing is quite not in the thing if a girl has children or not but in the thing if a man is ready to take a complete responsibility to have a family of his own and be a good father and husband. Is a child a trouble or a burden? A child is a continuance of your choice, a part of her. If you are not able to take her child in your heart you don’t love your girlfriend so much.